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ELYSBURG - One day after Lisa Newton's 46th birthday, life gave her a belated - and unwanted - "present."
Its technical name was invasive ductal carcinoma - breast cancer, in simpler terms.
Her positive outlook in dealing with the disease has become an inspiration to many, and Newton, to this day, uses laughter to diffuse the situation.
"My coping mechanism has always been humor," she said. "I laughed through childbirth and I laughed through this. It's just who I am."
“I have my pity parties, but then I dust myself off and get right back up,” she added.
The call — and life after it
A native of Fountain Springs, the Elysburg resident recalled the day she received the call from her doctor.
“I remember my husband, Michael, being ready to walk out the door, when the call came in, and him hearing me say something like, ‘Holy Shipwreck!’ but a different word,” Newton said.
After meeting with her doctor and understanding the disease, she began treatment. Following a lumpectomy and sentinel node biopsy that was negative, it ruled out chemotherapy. Newton met with an oncologist to see if she was a candidate for accelerated radiation therapy.
“I can recall having the discussion with the doctor about my cancer and wondering, ‘why me?’” she said. “He looked at me and said, ‘I don’t know why you have this, but I believe that it was given to you for some reason.’”
All through her treatment, Newton did not retreat, but she and her family continued her everyday life, going to work, volunteering at football games.
Following a year of therapy, Newton chose a humorous — some might call morbid — way to share the news that she was cancer-free.
“After going to Evangelical Hospital for my checkup in October, I walked through the gift shop with all the pretty decorations, and picked something out for myself,” Newton said. “When I got back to the office, everyone was waiting for the news, which I gave them by showing them my gift.”
The gift was a coffin-shaped bank with a small sign, saying “Not dead yet.” The bank still sits in her office today, and Newton is now two years cancer-free.
A voice of hope
Following her fight with cancer, it was a chance meeting that gave Newton the opportunity to help those going through the same things she had.
“I was at my first Relay for Life event as a survivor when an American Cancer Society worker, Jackie Cramer, sat down and listened to me tell my story. After I was done, Jackie said she wanted to nominate me for the Voices of Hope program,” Newton said.
Newton was unfamiliar with the concept, but after Cramer explained it, the words of her doctor ran through her mind, “I don’t know why you have this, but I believe that it was given to you for some reason.”
“The light bulb went on. This was my purpose,” she said.
Newton is now one of the American Cancer Society’s VOICES of Hope, or “Valiant warriors against cancer, Offering hope and Inspiration to Cancer survivors, caregivers, family and friends, while Encouraging involvement, and working together to Save lives.”
“We try to provide hope to many fighting this disease in some way, from the survivors themselves to families and caregivers,” she said.
Newton provides inspiration and comfort publicly through speeches, and privately through personal chats.
“My husband, who also works at Geisinger, will come across someone going through a rough time and give me their name and phone number, and I call them to talk,” she said.
A daughter’s inspiration
Newton’s story and attitude has not only inspired those fighting cancer, but her family as well. Her daughter, Abriel, wrote about her mother’s struggle and what she learned from it in her essay “Reminiscent of Beauty,” written as part of a scholarship application.
“Nearly losing my mother taught me to appreciate what I take for granted,” Abriel Newton wrote. “Enjoy the sandwich I’m eating even though there is too much mayonnaise. I learned to not worry so very much about the petty, trivial problems in life, there are much bigger things than me out there in the vast expanse in space. I realized, though it may be a cliche, that life truly is short. I cannot waste time fighting with a woman, who is used to much more difficult battles.”
Newton also admired her mother’s ability to put people at ease when talking about her disease, even tricking them to a point.
“Some of her friends would ask how she was getting along, only slyly hinting to the knowledge of the disease,” she wrote. “Occasionally, my mother would feign ignorance, forcing the speaker to say the word, ‘cancer,’ to be unafraid and comfortable. I have learned to become a warrior, though my mother is very much my superior.”
“Cancer is only a word, but it’s the punctuation that we use with it that determines how we deal with it,” Lisa Newton said. “Seeing how my daughter put into words how she was dealing with it all, and how I inspired her, is a pretty humbling concept.”
Speaking engagement
Newton and her daughter’s words of hope to inspire many more when they give the closing address Thursday at the American Cancer Society’s East Central Region Staff Conference in Seven Springs. It will mark the first time a Voices of Hope volunteer has been asked to speak at the conference.
“There was some form of divine intervention in that, too,” Newton said, “but I hope it will inspire everyone there. They said I have 40 minutes, but they might have to get the hook out for me to stop.”
“Our team this year, is ‘Building For The Future.’ When asked if I knew anyone who could deliver a message on that team while touching on what it means to provide a great experience, Lisa and Abriel came to mind,” said Chris Reichart, program manager for the Relay for Life Mission and Communications, East Central Pennsylvania Division.
Due to college classes, Abriel will not be able to join her mother at the conference, but will provide her words via video, in addition to Newton’s words of encouragement to the society’s employees.
How I can help you?
In Newton’s biography from the American Cancer Society, there is a section entitled “How I can help you,” where she wrote words of comfort for those dealing with cancer, like she did in her own way.
“Learn everything you can about your cancer. Fear is a relentless beast that does not deserve to be fed. When you know things and educate yourself about what is going on with your body, what your options are, where you are going from here, you become less afraid,” she writes. “It’s still scary, but you can do this. Figure out what works for you and ask for what you need. Be your own advocate in all things, and sometimes, you just need someone who understands.”